If you were to survey all of the writers in the United States, how many do you think would answer ”Yes,” if you were to ask them if they like to read their own work? Chances are, not too many. Most writers do not want to read their own work, at least after it’s published. It’s too tempting to over-analyze and to start re-editing everything all over again in the mind. No need to keep turning over the same stones again and again, right?
Another reason that many writers shy away from reading their own work is that it can be a confidence zapper. Confidence is an important attribute to possess as a writer. Unfortunately, many writers, especially those who are paid to write, become so worried about deadlines and what readers will think that they place undue pressure on themselves. The more they do this, the less confident they are.
Confidence boosting ideas for writers
The following list includes five things to keep in mind when your goal is to build your confidence as a writer:
- Accept rejections as a natural part of the process.
- Learn to process your self-doubt in a practical, healthy manner.
- Keep things in perspective.
- Write often.
- Learn from constructive criticism.
Receiving a rejection notice doesn’t necessarily mean you’re a bad writer or that your submission isn’t worthy of publication. There are many other reasons that a publisher might reject a specific piece of work. Try not to take it personally. Constructive feedback can help you build confidence if you take the lessons being imparted to heart.
Remember the reasons that you chose to be a writer. Don’t make it more or less than that. Keep it all in perspective and remember that, like life, you’ll have good days and bad days in the writing industry. Take each day as it comes, learn what you can, do your best and move on.
Sharpen your skills to build confidence
Do you struggle with grammar and punctuation skills? Are you updated on the current bestseller list? The more knowledge you gain about writing, be it technical skills or basic knowledge of what’s happening in the industry, the more confident you might be when a new project is sitting on your desk awaiting your attention.
Strengthen your vocabulary skills. Take a few creative writing classes online or in person. Become an avid reader if you are not already one. Each of these activities can indirectly help you boost your confidence as a writer. Writers who feel knowledgeable are more likely also going to feel like they have something to share that is worth reading.
